Ouch! Thought I was so much stronger!

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You know what else helped me, I had to learn to just be who I was regardless of how my H was acting. This way, I was still happy because I was being ME. So, if I felt like calling just to say 'hi', I did. If I felt like wishing him a happy b'day, I did. BECAUSE IT MADE ME FEEL GOOD - NOT HIM! ;-)

The other thing I realized as well, was that I had to stop coming to this site for a little while because I learned that it caused me to FOCUS WAY TOO MUCH on my situation. However, it was only after I began doing the things I needed to do for myself.

It is SO EASY to focus on the wrong that our spouses do, however, LIFE IS SO MUCH SIMPLER & MORE ENJOYABLE when we focus on the things that make us happy, ignore their negative behaviors (PRAYER HELPS HERE!... LOL - Prayer & God giving me the strength not to KICK HIS BUTT!....LOL)

I believe you all will do just wonderfully! May not come overnight - but definitely does come! Hang in there!