When my W and I first separated, it was her decision. I figured she would go rent an apartment on a month by month basis. Come to find out, she BOUGHT a house in another town 60 miles away.
I realized at that point that I needed to completely detach and move on with my life, I was absolutely certain we were over. I mean she bought a damn house for crying out loud!
It was when I let go and even started dating that she realized that she had lost a good thing. She can running back and calling morning, noon and night. Unfortunately I wasnt ready at that point to commit to her and now I am, but she's not(hence my reason for posting on this forum).
The point is, even when things seem to be absolute, you never know what the future holds. Detach, GAL and spent quality time with your kids. You never know.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
