Originally Posted By: mcc_xfer
I honestly don't want her to leave. I want her to be here for the kids' sake but I don't know what I'll be able to handle after she takes her trip.


She has in effect already checked out.

Originally Posted By: mcc_xfer
One correction to what I've written in my prior post. I do NOT "support" her decision to go see him, I simply will not interfere. There is a world of difference in my mind. Also, I do understand that she feels she NEEDS to go.

All you really have to do is take the gaming console/computer and move that over to her folks house. She will follow it with protest.