I have been stewing for a few days about XH's profile on match. It seems he "listed" stuff he DIDN'T like about me on his bio. Meaning: "if you do (this) or (this), don't contact me" is what he wrote.
At first it didn't bother me. I thought, "typical dig". Then, I started to become mad, humiliated, sheer pissed off!
Basically, his profile says he is a "humble guy" that is not cocky, arrogant, abusive, womanizer, none of that. So, by default, you should contact him for a date for the things he is NOT. He always said that to me.. I am not a drunk, etc., you should be grateful to have me. Like I should reward him for NOT doing bad things..
geez..
So, the last paragraph of his match profile he says this stuff. He addresses the sock issue again. The G.D. socks. Basically, I did everything in the house, cooking, cleaning, laundry, decorating, repairs, etc. But, if he had two socks that were mismatched HE WOULD FREAK!
Over and over again he would yell that there were socks in the sock laundry basket that weren't matched up.
Why he didn't do it himself you ask? Because he didn't think he HAD TO!
So, here we go again.
I read the last biline to his profile about things not matching and freaked out.
I know, I know, let it go. Oh, he also lists how loaded he is is in the income part. (news to me!)
Okay, time to cool down.
Both my mom and my friend said that they thought him going on match.com was his way of getting to me. They thought his whole bio on himself was saying to me "look, I am a nice guy, if you handn't screwed up and just done the few things I asked for, we would still be together"..
GAG!
Okay, I am done now.
Other than screwed up Nutty Koo Koo XH, all is good. I had my first observation from one of my advisors from school and did very well. I was pretty nervous to be teaching and have someone taking notes on me..but all turned out just peachy.
I love my job..
Kids are terrific and teaching college freshman is so rewarding. It really is.
Okay, time to go let off some steam.
No, I am not contacting XH. That is what he wants.
He can just continue to serial date. Yup, looks like he and the rat are kapoot..
Oh, did I tell you he broke up with her via text message while she was away at Club Med.
