Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

Yeah, except in NJ I don't believe I can actually kick her out. Maybe if something physical between them occurs that would be an option. Need to read up some more.

I honestly don't want her to leave. I want her to be here for the kids' sake but I don't know what I'll be able to handle after she takes her trip.

One correction to what I've written in my prior post. I do NOT "support" her decision to go see him, I simply will not interfere. There is a world of difference in my mind. Also, I do understand that she feels she NEEDS to go.