Has your H always not worked or was this just the case since you two got married?
Originally it was going to be both of us...but they advised that it might be best if I go alone first. He has no idea. I told him I have a meeting this afternoon. Eventually I would like for us both to go, but I have no idea how receptive he will be to that.
He worked when we first met. About 3 months later he lost his job. It turned out that within a couple of weeks I had to have surgery and he stayed to help me with recovery...it turned into him moving in.
He called this morning at 10am on the nose (it's a "tradition")...I asked him about a couple of strange phone numbers on my cell phone. Was I wrong to ask about that? Was I wrong to insinuate I had suspicions? I told him I was asking in case they were trying to get in touch with him for a job and misdialed my number by mistake...don't know if he bought that explanation or not.