HB, You're the moth that had to touch the flame of knowing where your H stands regarding D, and you burned your wing. You're allowed to make mistakes, as long as you change some patterns to minimize this mistake again.
It doesn't matter where your H stands anyway. Things can change in a matter of weeks and months. He's probably confused and couldn't articulate what his thoughts and feelings are.
Piecing is definitely a job that has the potential for burn-out. The LBS is forced to learn to have a more balanced life, in order to have the energy to work on the M. During this time of change, we wonder if the shoe is going to drop, or what direction the M is going.
What do you do that you enjoy? Are you spending time in recreation and leisure, or need to increase acitivity in those areas?
Piecing is partly a practice of putting our energy into connecting when we need to, performing our responsibilities as a spouse, taking time for self-care and balance, and accepting what is beyond our influence. It's a constant practice.
CL
Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 11/27/0703:29 PM.
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
