B...I understand how you feel. Tell me something...what would "giving up" and "moving on with your life" entail?? Detaching from your spouse? Getting a life? Focusing on yourself and doing things that make you happy? You have to do these things anyway whether you give up or not. Hold the hope in your heart and get on with your life! It's about you not her.
Here is what you posted on my thread yesterday...
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Jenny, it sounds to me like you need to detach more. A lot more. You are correct in saying that you shouldn't waste your time on worrying about the OW. You can't really do anything about it whether you know or not and you're adding a lot of stress into your life obsessing about it. That's just my thoughts on it.
This is sound advice and I totally needed to hear it. Now besides the comment about OW...I'd say the same advice could be given to you.
We're going to have good days & bad days...today is just a bad day. It's ok, you're allowed to have those!
Some other advice you gave to me...
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You're right, you do deserve to be treated better, so go buy yourself something nice. Take a long bath. Eat some ice cream. Do whatever it is that makes you feel good about yourself.
Hang in there...you're not alone. Tomorrow is another day! Man...we can really beat a cliche to death around here! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
