Long story short, my WAW left seeking divorce after 15yrs on Oct 19th and currently has no intention of coming back. She has been very clear to me that she will never return and can only remember bad things. We have 2 b's 14 & 9. The reason is not cheating, drugs, drinking but its years of little stuff that she doesnt want to deal with. She is simply fed up. Since then I have entered anger management, she says I have a temper and she is correct and I am working like crazy on it. I also go to marriage counseling alone every week, and read Micheles book and started a 180, but relapsed this past weekend and was pressuring her for a r. She is not willing to do anything at all including look at my changes. She doesnt want to talk to me, doesnt like it when I pick up the phone, and constantly speaks of things I did 14yrs ago, again, only arguments never anything physical, cheating, you get the idea. So, am I done? I cant win if she is not willing to forgive or forget about anything in the past. I am worried that she will wreck not just me, but is now hurting the kids to only find out that 10yrs later the issue may have been her not willing to forgive and forget. I cannot see how she could be happy with anyone that way, but I could be wrong. Any help would be great.
