Why can't I do this....

[Dom R]

Anyhow, when she wanted to go to bed I knew that I would be leaving, so I went up gave the boys kisses and went in to give her a hug. It was the first hug in days that was very sterile.

huh??

you "knew"?
what does that mean?

Sounds to me like, "you decided to leave".
you let down your family. you left them again.

I don't want to give you the wrong idea speach as well as I don't want you to think that you are moving back in.

You HAD "moved back in". That is YOUR choice, not hers.



why did you leave? Just because she asked you to?
She also asked you for a back rub.


I'd say that this was a test.
it was a test to see if you have changed, and still run away, if she pushes you.
you failed it.

go look for some extra credit

otherwise, you're on a fast track to divorce.
she's looking to just push you out the door, quickly, with a "no contest divorce."
you're just going along with it.

she asks you to move out. you move out.
she asks you to get a no-contest quickie divorce. sounds like you'll do that too. to her at least. the "move out" thing from her, is probably also a testing of the waters to see if you will fight her over the divorce, or make it quick and easy.

that may not be true.. but why would you not do the one, yet do the other?

If you're not going to give her a quickie divorce, then you shouldnt move out of the house either.