Briefly - I had to move away for a job, leaving my WAW MLCer at home wihtthe kids. Which is what she wanted. She asked me to help her find a job where they live. I see this is as a step to never moving with you, but I guess it is something she needs to work through.
I said I am conflicted for obvious reasons, don't know how I could help, but would be happy to talk to her about it if she thought I could be helpful. She responded nevermiond, I'll do it on my own...