I do things for myself all the time now. I have beautiful lingere, I'm working on my wardrobe, but since I'm still losing weight, I'm doing that slowly. I have always loved shoes and handbags and now I buy them when I want to and don't worry about doing something for me. I get my nails done and get pedicures on a regular basis. I got highlights in my hair a few weeks ago and it is longer than it has been in a long time. I get compliments everywhere I go on my hair.
I like who I am becoming. Having a job has given me some confidence back. I know I'm a good, valuable person.
Hip hip hooray. This sounds terrific. I say, just let that old coot spew and threaten, you sound like you are doing all you can do, and more.
Who really knows for sure, of course, but I truly don't think that loathing is directed at you at all, even though it looks like it from your vantage point. hope and bre have nailed it, the loathing is for themselves. We are just convenient whipping boys (or girls).
I'm so glad you are making Sun's life better each day, you deserve it so much.
