If I understand things correctly, Sandi2 has physical issues with fibromyalgia. Then what I see is that Sandi2 has numerous activities including job, and by the end of the day, is physically exhusted. This HARMS her relationship with her husband. I see this all the time with LD's (including my own wife), they try to fill their lives with everything and anything (except sex and physical touch stuff). The busyness of LD women is what KEEPS them LD. They are focusing on all the WRONG stuff in terms of their marriage.
Sandi2, how much time do you spend EACH day focused SOLEY on your husbands physical needs. THAT is what is important.
