It totally sucks that your W thinks you did it. To be so falsely accused would really upset me, too.
Joie
I'm not as upset as you might think.
I know that I didn't send the email. And I know that I didn't create this situation by inviting shady and unseemly people into our marriage. So I really had nothing to do with this particular incident. So why get upset? It's a waste of energy.
PS: Joie, husband may want to put you on the football team. You better start stretching...