I know, I know. Don't sweat the small stuff. I was very glad he did the dishes, don't get me wrong. Doing that on Sat when I didn't feel well was much better than if he had done it on Thanksgiving. The attic has always been a struggle. I cannot get in it myself or believe me I would have had it done already. And I hate asking him. Believe me, I am much better than ever. What resistance/unproductive behavior are you referring to? Going to order the book now, problem is in time to read for me. There is not enough time in the week.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08