TB - Congratulations on your progress, you have come a long way in a very short time. Many of us on the boards would give anything to be in your position.

My W and I have been separated since 9/29/07. We have had a lot of ups and downs and I am really not sure where our R is heading. Just got back from a 4 day weekend with our child. It went great... slept in the same bed but no sex. Never thought that would happen.

A little advice...

My w and I separated for a week in May 07. I came home too quickly and the honeymoon phase started. Yes, it was great, but unfortunately it only lasted 2 months and we did not address our issues. 1 month later we hit the rocks and separated.

Go slow.