In the name of G-A-L, I'm doing a couple things, I've decided.
putting my wedding ring back on. I took it off after failing to follow rule #1: believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see. She told me she was filing for divorce imminently. I believed it, took my ring off. It's been 3 weeks. The ring is going back on til the D, if it comes to that, is final.
getting some new cologne. I used to wear cologne. What happened? (She stopped buying it for me, for one.) Whatever, I'm getting some new stuff.
getting some new clothes for the holidays. New threads always make me feel better.
finding an apartment or house to rent. I'm currently staying with friends, it's not big enough to have the kids stay over.
Yikes! I also just did something a little provocative - registered for a retrouvaille weekend, without her agreement. I entered her information, address, phone, etc. The Retrouvaille people are going to contact her. We'll see if she agrees to go.
Maybe too pushy?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
