What a good year this has been.....

[forever21]

Hi Bethie!

Great to hear from ya! No excuses needed. I've been meaning to stop by your thread too but haven't posted like I'd like to. I had a really nice Thanksgiving. Enjoyed it very much. There was certainly lots to smile about. Hope you found the same on your day!

Ya know, it's been a real blessing for me lately.... my H not playing fair. It's made it a no-brainer for me to know which direction I'm needing to move in. Not having as many unknowns has relieved so much of my anxiety. I've felt pretty darn good lately. I know I'm doing the right thing.

Lol. When I was trying to decide whether I should take $100 or $200 cash out for myself and thinking out loud, I'd asked the gal at my bank (who'd been through a similar sitch) what she thought. She said if it was her she'd take it all out. hehee. I couldn't do that, and didn't think it was the right move even if I could. I didn't know if maybe my reaction to his threat would start the ball rolling in that direction, etc. I can't blame her, but you sure can't beat feeling good about your choices and not second guessing yourself. After listening to his voicemails later on, I've no doubt he was going to withdraw it all regardless. He wasn't very happy that I'd made it there before him. I'm soooo happy I did. He said he was going to leave enough to buy dog food for the dogs. Nice, huh? He did leave $27. What? Does he think they eat Alpo or something? I already stopped buying them organic and went to iams. Sheesh.

There are definitely angels that were sent for me. It just doesn't stop. I just got a copy of the police report on H's arrest in August. Yuck. He seems to have found someone he can abuse. Icky, icky, icky.

Thank you, dear! Bless your heart. I should be over in the D forum soon. I met with my C today. See my L again on Wednesday. Things are moving along, have a lot of homework to do tomorrow. Started car shopping, thinking about going back to college, a lot of good stuff.

Peace and love, f21