I needed to do something so also took a position that I will not let fear of doing the wrong thing stop me . If I do get something wrong well i will know not to do it again.
I guess I am lucky in that there seems to be something to work with, possibly W is not as detached as she would like to make out she is.
The only expectation i have is that she will pull back again at some stage and it is very clear that the emotions that caused her to leave are still there. Add to that I have no idea where her R is at with OM.
What I am doing is keeping my Dairy recording actions and results . Its actualy good to flick back through from time to time also. Any talk from me of her A or OM is very counter productive at this stage , I know that.