Just a gut reaction, but why would you file for divorce if you want to save your marriage? Maybe one of the DB coaches can help you, that just seems antithetical to me.
What you say makes a ton of sense to me! But as I said, I am still trying to figure out how to balance the "give space" and "be patient" and "act as if" advice with the "she needs to face the realities" part.
But you've all given me some good things to think about. I appreciate it~!
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
