I'm glad today is over. Cold and rainy outside and not any brighter inside. Today was one of my days with the Ds. Normally H only stops by for a few minutes on those days to get stuff for the next day. I took a chance and sent him a text at some point in the day telling him what I was making for dinner and let him know there would be enough for him. Didn't hear from him untile hours later and he said he wouldn't be able to make it before we went sk8ing. Told him we wouldn't be eating until after and he could let us know later if he wanted dinner w/ us. Told him if not we would save him some. He didn't stop by until an hour after we ate. He did eat and asked if he could have seconds. H didn't really spend much time at the house.

I am getting worried about him because he is complaining about his stomach. He has had problems w/ that in the past. I don't know if it is stuff going on here, at work or both causing it. I hate to see him not doing well and I'm worried he isn't taking care of himself. I wish I could help but I know he doesn't trust me right now.

Tomorrow is H's night. I offered to let him spend Wed. w/ Ds also because we have something going on Thurs. and that is his night. He is taking me up on that offer. I think I definitely need to try myself to something one of those nights.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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