Cemar, what is it that I am focusing on that is not important? I have given up all my jobs at the church but one and will resign that as soon as Christmas is over. The only reason I threw myself into work was to fill the void that was always in my life. But, since I won't have those jobs any longer, there won't be that problem. I don't see where that was a problem where my intimacy was concerned. It made no difference if I felt great of bad.......nothing changed. Maybe I don't understand what you are referring to.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
