After initially waffling, wife is now insisting that I sent it. She is absolutely sure, beyond a shadow of a doubt. And I have made very little effort to change her mind. I did send a second email to her pointing out a few holes in her logic. And I still don't know the contents of the email, so I can't really say much of anything anyway.
I am done trying. This is a hole that she has dug, and now she is dragging me into it.
Doesn't the email show the address of the person who sent it? Still waiting for my email. You could send another to Shoodancer at aol.com. That's an alternate account.
I feel so bad for what you are going thrugh. I would just drop it. You didn't send it . end of story. Is it really worth your time trying to defend yourself on something you did not do? tell her 'ya what ever get a life"
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
She is focusing on your imagined bad behavior so that she can overlook the really bad behavior of someone who really did do the wrong thing and got caught.
I agree 100%. I will not discuss this with her. It is a situation that she has created, and she can deal with it on her own. I am finished talking about it.
It's the guilty people who repeatedly emphasize their "innocence." The truly innocent say it quietly, and move on.