yes, I suspect I won't find anything unless I take the computers somewhere else for another uber geek to review them...but I think the bigger issue is that he admit the problem.
You are correct...I am not sure he actually had an affair. And there is the option that he was only looking for "cyber sex"...but in my mind that's still cheating.
I am checking what phone records I can, but I'm not sure anything will come of that.
I do realize there are other problems...probably a lot more than I would have ever thought. I see the counselor tomorrow afternoon and we'll go from there I guess. I can only hope that he sees a problem and wants to fix it...
And yes, I could be suspicious because of my own insecurities...but to me, his response to my phoney email this morning spoke volumes, know what I mean? Why would you respond to a complete stranger like that...not just once but twice! Encouraging them to get in touch with you...
I'm afraid to check the email now...I don't want to know if he still wants to talk to the imaginary woman. I know he's talking to others.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts...so far I'm a little drunk and he's wondering why my eyes are red. I don't know if he believes my story about getting a cold. Just a few more hours 'til I can lay in bed...don't know if I'll sleep...
