Hi Mandyloo, so pleased for you and your son, new place, new begining, less grief in a place you can make home.
I don't know what it is with our H's, I just can't connect with what he is doing. H is now in contact with both sons, it has taken 11 months. Yet from listening he still doesn't get it, he repeatedly asked the youngest what he had done wrong, he repeatedly lied throughout the convo. He remains deep in what ever he is in to.
I try not to think about the money he has spent in the last two years it is outragious and we haven't seen a penny of it. In reading the papers he put before the court you would think he was a victim, If I read them I would judge his W as a money grabbing bitch. He tells a good tale, he paints a good picture but the fact remains he has blown 4x his salary in less than 2 years, with little to show. I nor his sons have recieved it.
the family home is desperate for essential repairs yet I can't touch it or afford to due to the court case.
It just goes from bad to worse and all the time it is, the lawyers get their cut.
Why does the MLCer suddenly mistrust the whole professional world as well as themselves. H is contesting every professional valuation and decision put forward, if I didn't know better I'd think he was stalling. He thinks our assets are worth twice as much, Ah I wish they were.
