azhira, do you feel bad if you don't help him? Do you feel that you have to help him? I'm wondering if there's a hint of codependency going on....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency

M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93