SirPrizeMe, Just a gut reaction, but why would you file for divorce if you want to save your marriage? Maybe one of the DB coaches can help you, that just seems antithetical to me.
I completely understand what you mean about forcing the practical realities. I've felt like this at times, my wife has filed for divorce, but still wants me to come comfort her when she has a migraine, and still wants sex. I've been told by everyone that this is just comforting her in her decision, but the views on this board are somewhat different. My dad and C said to not spend any more time with W until she apologizes for what she's done, to not be her friend. Then I read DR and it says to never expect an apology. So, different views, but I'm desperate and the DB and DR stuff is my last hope.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
