Sir

The acting as if I was refering to was in your attitude to her, acting as if everything is ok, showing in away that you are going to be ok. That you aren't mad with her...that kind of thing.
As far as things go with the kids, I feel if you are seperated its better to have some set things in place. But ulitmatley its up to you, as you know the situation best, what we say here is primarily to do with your relationship with your spouse.

You have to decided whats best for your kids and you right now


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda