Wow man, I'm gone 4 days and you've got half a thread gone. Sounds like a lot going on.
I don't know how you deal with the flip-flopping affection, but I think you're right to say no to cake eating.
I gotta go with you on the Superfriends and Terry Tate commercials, those were great.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory