Max,
I'm wondering the same thing. How's DB'ing supposed to work if we don't have a chance to show them? Of course, the changes are supposedly for us, no matter if they come back or not. It's just hard to see it that way.

Finding that song list, I can relate to that. It was looking back at the e-mails right before the separation that did me in. She even bought a book called "Total Marriage Makeover", but didn't feel like I was interested in going through it with her. How could I be so dense?

Last edited by jon2911; 11/26/07 08:25 PM.
Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK