All I can hold on to is myself, kids and this site

[BEAUTYandWAH]

After I came home from my overnight shift, (he stay with kids at my place the night of my work until I come home..) he put his 'new' outfit and was getting ready for his day.

The outift was not his/my style what so ever and it is not what he can afford. Last 8 years, I chose his outfit, hair style, and so on EVERYDAY (even when he was going out to see OW.. of couse I didn't know) What he was wearing today is not our style. It was against d-buster principle, but I said "I guess your style is going down and you won't look good any more...it is just not your style" He got very upset and said "that is very rude". I suspected it was a gift from someone.. OW?

I just cannot complement when he just don't look good.. What can I say something good to him..?

I am going to my IC right now and hope I can put my mind together to start the new week.