Balto, I actually learn something from these vents. I see what my non-expressive H was going through all those years...it helps me understand what went wrong. So, your venting is serving a purpose besides being just venting.
Interesting as nobody would call me "non-expressive". If anything I have been too expressive. I showed too many of my cards. Took away all of the mystery. Romance seems (my opinion of course) to require a bit of mystery. A bit of "what is s/he thinking?"
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.