Originally Posted By: lizzy
She thinks H was just around more because his EAs were probably tied up with family over the holiday weekend. UGH! I know I need to be positive and just take things slow and one day at a time. Sometimes that is just so hard though.


I wouldn't worry too much about what your friends are saying - They don't know everything that is going on and they certainly can't read your H's mind... If your H didn't want to be around, he'd not be around. It's pretty simple.

As far as the EA comment - The sad reality is that they will only come back to us when the EAs are no longer in the picture. As long as they get their needs met by them, then they don't need us as much as they used to.

You sound like you've had a rough few days, but don't let it cloud the positive things that have happened. Your H is eating his oh so tasty cake! \:\)