Thanks for the input. It just got worse.

It seems that her boyfriend ran afoul of some governing body of his profession. Somebody sent him an email regarding this (not sure whether it was a threat to turn him in to his current employer, or what). Regardless, the wife is blaming me for sending it. Of course, I did no such thing. I tried to tell her on the phone that I didn't do it (don't even know what she was talking about). When I saw that I was getting nowhere with this, I ended the call.

Also, she said a couple times, "You are blowing a chance here." Thought but did not say: "A chance for what???"

I followed-up with terse email stating that I will not beg, and I will not plead... but for the final time, I did not send the email. I have neither the time nor the energy to concern myself with these kinds of things. I told her I am focused on myself and my kids and she is free to do whatever she wants, I don't care.

I have no idea whether the person signed my name, or they just jumped to the conclusion that I sent it. Don't know, don't care.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9