Fellow DBers... how do I stay in contact with my W? Since I found out about OM, there has been no contact at all. We usually text, email jokes and talk on the phone. Or should I be going dark now?

I know that I need to compete with OM and be the greener grass, but how do I do that without looking desperate?

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07