Thanks for asking. FIL is not doing well. The doctor at the new nursing home said they think he had a slight stroke in the other home as his tongue is not working nad he can not be understood since he was hospitalized. I don't think he has long.
H is very quiet about it doesn't say much. We are trying to deal with his Mom too as she has been very confused and I have been trying to take care of matters there and talk to H about it. Don't know if I should just stay in the background but, everyone calls me (even MIL). Just wonder if it make things worse or better. H acts somewhat distant at times but i wonder if it is just all that is going on so i let it go.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
