dh, I hear you about wondering if I want this stranger back in my life. Last night as we discussed custody and splitting the assets and property she had no heart whatsoever, just the cold hard numbers. Things that we spent days or weeks agonizing over to decide on a couple years ago are now inconsequential. It's almost like she is a vet discussing surgery on someone else's pet; very detached and analytical. She says she wants to make this as easy as possible, as inexpensive as possible, but make no doubt, it's happening one way or the other. I not only don't know this person, I don't like her very much.
Me:46 Her:40 Daughter:7 She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07 She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07 I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07 My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future together and will do whatever it takes. Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.