I did it -- maintained my head and did no snooping over the weekend. I hope that means I am getting better and my 180's for me are sinking in deeper into my head.
I did need to use the computer to do a google search for my S which brought up what she had searched for... tried not to look but did... She had searched real estate in the place where I live now. Interesting...
No questions, no interest in cell phones, etc. I went to bed early with the kids as to not be in her and her moms face and left my phone in kitchen. They were in basement ansd when I heard my phone do a text alert I heard her bound up the steps. She also told me earlier when she heard my phone go off.
Last week I told her I needed to change the time I talk to the kids because I was going to see a movie. She also had looked at the movie listings for where I live.
She has a meeting with C this week. I am thinking that I will be busy one night this week to let her think about my GAL efforts some more.
T'givnig was pretty stressful, as I'm sure it was for most of us. One bright spot - she called me while shopping with her momo so I could help her tease her mom about something. I asked her mom why she did that and she didn't know. She even suggested that it wasn't necessary but W had to do it right then.
It was definitely a like old times moment. Every time we have one of these rare moments it seems like W catches herself and then p[uts the guard back up. I guess that is normal?? I just enjoyed the moment and did not push...
