It's not too broken. It's a decision to commit and try to work on it or not. He's decided not to. It's not that it won't work, he just won't.
That's pretty much what I told him. That I believed it can work if both parties are committed. He couldn't disagree with that.
Originally Posted By: JoieDeVivre
It does seem odd that he is bringing up your needs now. Why does it matter to him now?
He's done this a few times lately. Maybe he's trying to twist it so that he doesn't seem at fault. Except that he asks clarifying questions to help him understand exactly what I mean.
It's like he gets sucked into seeing ow and is in a fog and gets belligerant about us never being able to reconcile. Speaking of fog, he mentioned that at one point he broke it off completely w/ow. I asked when and he said when we were seeing the MC and I obviously wasn't listening to him then. I told him I stopped seeing her a couple of months into it and during the first month he was non-stop on the phone w/ow in front of me and the second month he actually came home from spending a whole day with her and told me how weird it was to be on a "date" with someone else. He looked at me kind fo funny... Almost like he didn't remember it. He never broke it off w/her for more than a couple of days and I called him out on it!
