again, please get the book "the proper care and feeding of husbands"
I still see a lot of resistance in your part, some unproductive behavior. Take care and relax, he did the dishes to help you, that's what matters, so the fall/halloween stuff is out there longer that you wanted to, big deal, if it bothers you that much then put it away yourself so you dont' sit there stewing in your juices about how he never does it. RELAX
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.