I would not be too hasty about confronting him. Especially since you kind of "set him up".
I think speaking with a marriage counselor is a good idea. Have you read Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy yet? If not go to the book store now if you can and get a copy.
Sorry you have to be here, but I am glad you found this site.
I have not read either of those books...but have been thinking I need to get some kind of book. Maybe I'll stop at the bookstore on the way home. Ironically, that's where I thought about "meeting" him.
Found this site yesterday. I have a feeling I might be around awhile.