Plank removed from eye, too late for WAW? 8

[Puddle]

Hey Heim!

Sorry to hear you've been under the weather. Hope you're feeling better.

Still, managed to get the girls' fish tanks set up -- been promising them since I moved in, just haven't had the time. They're enjoying those.

Great! I bet they are. Accomplishing something (especially something one's promised the littles) can be so satisfying.

Anyway, man, you would have thought I'd asked her something personal.

Like, "Where are you spending your time?" So now you know she doesn't even want to be your friend right now, can't, hasn't had enough space (I add that last one on my own, but I think it's true). I wonder what it was that made this click for you this time. Whatever it was, good.

I have no clue how we got from last January her telling me she didn't want to lose me to late Winter/Spring us buying things for the house together to the ILBNILWY speech to now, where I can't even ask a simple question about something interesting that she did.

Heim, do you really have no clue?

Who the hell is she to have made these decisions without sharing her feelings with me -- after all, all I did was give her all the love that I had and knew how to give at the time, with her telling me she was happy/OK with the way things were between us and that they were getting better -- all the way up until she decided to leave.

Hello, anger! Is this new, Heim? Have you not been angry sometime since this started? I'm asking because I wonder whether it's also part of you moving forward.

My original point was this: other than polite chit-chat with the WAS, leave her or him the hell alone. They've built up such a huge reserve of negativity and anger towards us, that the slightest touch can send them over the edge.

Excellent advice.

Take care, Heim.