He's not willing to try, for NOW. That doesnt mean he wont in the future. I went through the same thing with my W. She left me, filed for D and wanted to take my D from me. I WAS A MESS. I detached completely, even started dating to fill the void (dont ever do that). Then about 8 months after separating, she decided to call off the divorce and came running back to me. I was still with my gf and W was devastated. Now the tables have turned. :-(
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07