Does your W have no idea of the danger of driving 8hrs to meet a stranger? Regardless of your M that is just stupid.

I know this is probably not your major concern at the moment but will she leave details with anyone, (her parents perhaps if you don't want the details)stating where she is going etc.

She must be in such a dark place mentally to even consider such actions.

Do you think that she made out to this other guy that you didn't care about things when she told him you knew? Do you think if he knew how strongly you felt about this he would back off again?

I am so, so, sorry for the hurt she is causing you.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength