Thanks for your reply.

I have not confronted him because I only had suspicions...and I wanted to trust him, I guess. I have no idea how to even confront him about this.

This morning I attempted to "set him up". I created a new email account in a fake name and sent him a message. He responded quickly, and what I would consider "eagerly". I had thought I'd try to set up a meeting with him and surprise him by being there (when he was expecting someone else)...but is that the right way to handle something like this?

The keystroke idea would probably be a good idea if we didn't have three computers...and he wasn't a computer specialist...I wouldn't have much of a clue how to install one and which machine to install it on so that he wouldn't know about it.

I'm so confused...

I just scheduled an appointment for a marriage counselor. I'm going alone tomorrow afternoon. My plan is to talk to the mc, then see what their input is.

I just really don't know what to do now.


My story, part 1