undercoverwife... have you confronted him about this? I would start there. Most cheaters like the thrill of being sneaky, gather evidence so he cannot refute your claims.

I think I saw somewhere that you can download a program that will record keystrokes and input that info into another program so you can read what he's been typing. If interested, google it.

I know how bad it sucks to be going through this, we've all been there.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07