The problem is that I think my W met this guy when we were no longer speaking. I was off doing my own thing with a new gf (I didnt think I ever wanted her again) and my W just moved on. When I broke it off with my gf, W and I started dating again and then the OM became an issue.

I think she was dating OM and cheating on him with me.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07