It's not too broken. It's a decision to commit and try to work on it or not. He's decided not to. It's not that it won't work, he just won't.
It does seem odd that he is bringing up your needs now. Why does it matter to him now? And for him to bring up how fabulous OW is ... that's just downright mean!
It's been a rough few days for you. I say use the 48 hr rule to step back and think. I know he doesn't want to move out until the house is sold (not sure that work for me) but do you think he'd move out for a few days just to give you some space?
