H, I sort of put that article info up there for fun. It's easy to say what's on your mind and be sarcastic, huh? Been there done that myself. That is first nature for many of us. On the other hand, saying what's on your mind in a thoughtful, well-constructed way, not as easy! But we all know the bottom line is COMMUNICATION IS KEY.
Hurtin, my H seems to be climbing down off the fence. OW is still being nasty -- well off and on, but the nasty moments are destroying the fantasy. Someone hit me because I sort of feel sorry for her. As far as what I'm doing to help him off of it ... faced by own issues with intimacy.
