Might want to post this question on surviving the big D. That's where the dating women are at.
I think there are probably some decent guys out there, just like there are some decent women. The thing is, many of them are post-D and would love to have the attention of an attractive woman. He probably wouldn't even see the warning signs for quite a while. Your wife might be pretty adept at hiding her baggage, at least until the relationship gets more comfortable. With her self-esteem issues, she's probably pretty fair game for anyone that can treat her well.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
